Why do you really go to erotic massages?
This question was made many times, especially by those that think that it’s stupid to go to a massage when you can pay the same money (or less) and have full sex with a girl instead.
So what makes you chose an erotic massage?
1- Because you can have an erotic experience without being unfaithful?
2- Because you simply like massages with an erotic touch?
3- Because you feel more pampered with a masseuse than with a prostitute?
4- Because it excites you that the masseuse may provide something extra, out of mutual sympathy?
5- Because you like the spiritual side of some of the massages?
6- Other?
What makes you go to erotic massages?
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On an average Massage girls are prettier than Privat girls.
What makes you go to erotic massages? – loneliness 🥹
Yes but he wants to know why massages when full sex is available at same price.
Sex is overrated 😄 I was just answering that one last question
0) safer from the hygiene/health perspective (if not doing pussycat)
and also 1) + 2) + 3) and also 7) my GF sets the tolerance limits 😅
1) + 2) + 3) + 4) + just like happy said, my gf also allows this without considering it cheating.
I haven’t tried privat, but I do feel like a lot of the „purity“ is lost when it’s just „paying for sex“. Not that paying for a handjob is something pure, but the idea that sex is not on the table and there are clear limits does seem to create a kind of almost magical feeling. It feels a bit like having an airport or vacation crush, where the scope in which you interact with the person is very limited, and thus allows for very different experience.
I do also think sex is overrated in that I’d 100% rather just cuddle in the shower for 30 mins and go home than have sex for 30 mins and go home. I feel like I really don’t even need the orgasm, I’m in it mainly for the erotic feeling.
It’s definitely more nuanced than that, but the ability to just have a deeply erotic experience with a random very beautiful girl you’ve never seen before seems much more unique than quick sex.
I agree! Totally with the last sentence.
Explore all types of women i like, getting more erotic experience for my romantic realtionship which Im happy with. My GF gives me some erotic/sexual boundaries, which i respect, but i like to break them sometimes on massages just for my pleasure. 🙂
If not doing pussycat, it is safe option. And could be also categorized as not full cheating 😉
Thanks all for the replies.
I will, of course, also provide my reasons. To clarify why I don’t use prostitutes instead of masseuses is quite easy for me: I do not need to pay to have sex. I can have sex for free. Generally speaking, paid sex is sterile and empty of emotion or effort. I don’t understand those that say that Alpha men go to prostitutes and Beta men go to massages. I don’t understand why paying for a woman to have sex with you makes you an Alpha man!!…
Anyway, some of the reasons I’ve mentioned apply to me: I love to get massages and I even enjoy them more with an erotic touch. I really like to get a good massage and even when it’s body-to-body it can be a very pleasant/ healthy massage for the body.
I also feel that, when I pay for the massage, the masseuse has to make an effort to provide a service. To give a blowjob for 5 minutes and then open your legs is not exactly hard work. The masseuse has to have some knowledge and dedicate herself to your body.
I also appreciate when there is mutual sympathy between me and masseuse and she will not follow her own boundaries. It has happened a couple of times and it gives the feeling of a real interaction and not just a paid service. Even if it’s acting.
Overall massages is the type of service that I appreciate and that I’m happy to pay for.
Z uvedených důvodů rozhodně č. 3.
6a) logistika, zavedené masážní salóny mají jasný systém nabídky a objednání, které je mnohem jednodušší než u mnohdy pochybných privátů. Také si drží nějaký standard kvality a člověk se spíše nesplete.
6b) nemám moc rád kondomy.
Mega souhlasím, bordely mi přijde že maj bordel i v komunikaci (nikdy jsme nebyl a nechci). Kondomy jsou mi dost asexuální a nemám je obecně rád.
Sex is often overrated. Most times it’s the “small” stuff that leaves a bigger impression on me- cuddling, fingering, laying, showering, nursing on the perfect pair of B-cup tits, etc…
I pay for both massage and “full-service”, but a massage is far easier to work into one’s day. Full on sex revs up the mind, whereas a massage and a tug calms me.