Why would you go to „just“ a classic erotic massage?
I am putting on a twist to previous topic started by another gentleman. When you have options open for French kissing or cunnilingus (pussycat) then why are there so many reviews about vanilla classic erotic massage?
I spent last 4 years in the cold north (like Jon snow from game of thrones) where even highest paid escort might not allow kissing. So here in prague wonderful and incredibly beautiful ladies are offering kissing yet people are choosing classic massage is a mystery to me. I personally avoid to go any massage shop or girl that doesn’t offer kissing or pussycat regardless of how pretty girl is or how great are her skills.. I don’t think it’s question of budget cause I would go to one massage less but use that excess cash for extra services. Maybe local Czech haven’t yet realized how lucky they are to live in this literal heaven on earth.
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The likelihood of contracting a nasty STD. When you consider that these girls have several clients a day, they’ve been doing it for months or years… all those clients that go reguraly around erotic workers…. so how likely is it that if she kisses and gets licked by those hundreds of men, she’ll get some kind of germ and pass it on to you?
Same for me, if there was no fear of STDs or really just unhygienic environment it’s be a different thing. Massages feel so much safer, also because they’re actual businesses and not just a random apartment you go to with no expectation of who’s there. Another thing when reading the related privat forums is how many times the girls there try to scam the customer.
At least in my experience so far going to the well reviewed massage parlors it might not always be amazing, but at least I feel safe.
Oh yes forgot about the fear factor. I have been doing it so long, I must be a statistical anomaly like Neo in the matrix. 😇
It’s a good question and I can see your logic: if there is a market out there that offers bigger intimacy with the masseuse, why not take advantage of it?
Well, the main reason was already mentioned: hygiene and fear of STD’s. In a way, you will be licking a vagina that is regularly „visited“ by other unknow tongues:)
But I would add another factor: I like to understand if there is some mutual sympathy between myself and the masseuse to have something extra from her. If the experience is positive, I may go for a more intimate massage but, otherwise, I’m not tempted to pay in advance for something that I don’t know if I will want in the end.
Another relevant point is that the term „pussycat massage“ is already being used in the market to scam customers. I know of a few salons that sell that type of massage that only entitles the customer to touch the masseuse „down there“ with the hand. So, pay extra to be scammed, no thank you.
I should have explicitly written cunnilingus lol. Yes, pussycat is being used to scam noobs in lots of places like loveme, redbed etc. I had candy, Infinity, fantazie, Tantra and RabbitHall in mind as they offer proper pussycat.
STD angle is overblown just like pandemic. When I was in university studying biophysics everyone else was humping like rabbits with much higher partner numbers than ordinary sex workers. Anyway good if that’s the main reason, more for me.
Speaking of STD and hygiene. By comparison, many prostitutes don’t offer kissing or licking – services that are now quite common in massage parlours. However, from the point of view of hygiene and STD, it is much safer to have oral sex with a condom, which you won’t find in massages for a change. So if salons are reading this – think about it. Maybe they’ll expand their offerings somewhere.
It is very safe to have normal vaginal sex with a woman. HiV transmission probability without condom is 4 in 10000 exposure* as per US CDC (I would bet EU numbers would be even lower) yet people are scared.
Fear factor works in mysterious ways. If germaphobe fascists have it their way then every masseuse will wear masks, rubber gloves and transparent plastic suite, one girl in other discussions was already wondering why they have to be naked for an erotic massage and why can’t she wear gloves.
Yeah, to be fair HIV is the least probable to be catched – there are other more common STD that urological clinics are full with patients. So I totally understand this factor, anyhow massage with happy end, without pussycat or frensh kiss is totally sfe I guess.
But I think it is fair to say sex without condome with prostitute is not safe 🙂
One reason I’m afraid is repeat exposure. I mean I get not all prostitutes have STDs, but 4 in 10000 becomes 4 in 100 when you repeat it 100 times. A part of my fear is that I’m really starting to enjoy the idea of „quantity“.
I do appreciate you sharing the numbers tho, and definitely want to look at the actual real numbers for things instead of relying on fear.
That’s a number for raw sex. With condom probability is infinitesimally smaller. Also probability maths doesn’t work the way you described, it should not change because you repeat but anyway point was with condom it is incredibly safe.